I just dont see why this is used as an insult
Why does it matter if you die with people?
I suppose its because youre with your family?
But before you die you experience your whole life in 7 minutes
https://www.science.org/content/article/burst-brain-activity-during-dying-could-explain-life-passing-your-eyes
So why should I be surrounded by family?
And tbh I wouldnt care if I were given a proper ceremony at all since once youre dead... youre dead? Why do I care what people think or do of me after? I am literally a dead corpse? I think this is an issue of us modern peoples, we should just learn to move on and not overstress an eventual outcome
Thoughts?